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BlondieLJ
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Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this. We are at our witts end! I have an 18 yr old son who injured his back playing football his senior yr (over a yr ago now). During a tackle he fell on another players helmet. Followed by a serious car accident (not his fault). He has seen our GP (repeatedly), a Chiropractor, spine specialists, physical therapists etc and been told that the MRI's and x-rays show nothing. Although the Chiropractor did believe that the cartilage between some of his discs was far to worn down for his age. He is an honor's student and won many academic scholarship to a very prestigious College and was recruited by their football coach (He has him on injured reserve for this year)..leading to seeing the team doctors, trainers, a new PT working on gentle movements in a pool. They are sending him to a neurologist next week so we are hopeful there. Our problem is that while we are pursuing the cause of his pain no one seems to want to help with the pain. Our GP was prescribing helpful pain relief in the beginning but now is down to 5/500 lortabs because she is worried about him having narcotics on campus. The thing is without pain control he can't be on campus. His pain is so severe that he can't walk, sit, or stand for long at all. He's had to be taken by arabulance to the ER and I have driven over countless times to take him myself, they know when he gets there he's in extreme pain by his sky high bp (usually low) and body racking spasms that are obvious. The ER doctors do take care of the pain at the time, usually taking shots of toradol, 2 shots of dilaudid, and 2 shots of norflex just to get the pain down to below a 5 on their scale. I deal with pain as well and can tell you that would knock me out (which isn't easy) but it just makes his tolerable. It does not "buzz" him evident by conversation, alertness etc. He is NOT your typical teenager and our GP knows that, knows him, has seen him with broken bones, concussions and other injuries and how he can take pain normally. This young man turned down morphine for appendicitis because it made him throw up. He's refused pain medications in the past for injuries. He's NOT a drug seeker.
Now we are afraid he is going to see all that he has worked so hard for go down the drain. He loves his college and has been trying to keep up via his laptop from home but the pain is so intense things are not looking good. As his mother I have never seen my son cry repeatedly through out the day due to pain. I've only seen him cry from the appendicitis.
We are looking for suggestions to make his pain tolerable enough for him to attend his classes, how to convince a doctor to prescribe this to a college student, and if the neurologist doesn't help where to turn next? We were told by several doctors that PM's won't see him due to his age (although that was before his 18th b-day). We need fast relief until the problem can be pinpointed and resolved so he doesn't lose his scholarships and have to leave the college he absolutely loves. There is no way we could afford this college without the scholarships. Any suggestions?
Now we are afraid he is going to see all that he has worked so hard for go down the drain. He loves his college and has been trying to keep up via his laptop from home but the pain is so intense things are not looking good. As his mother I have never seen my son cry repeatedly through out the day due to pain. I've only seen him cry from the appendicitis.
We are looking for suggestions to make his pain tolerable enough for him to attend his classes, how to convince a doctor to prescribe this to a college student, and if the neurologist doesn't help where to turn next? We were told by several doctors that PM's won't see him due to his age (although that was before his 18th b-day). We need fast relief until the problem can be pinpointed and resolved so he doesn't lose his scholarships and have to leave the college he absolutely loves. There is no way we could afford this college without the scholarships. Any suggestions?