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starlight0418
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...for sex. What do I do? Me and this guy actually dated like 9 years ago when we were freshman in high school. Wasn't a very good relationship back then given that we were both 14. We didn't talk much after we broke up or after we graduated. We recently ran into eachother back home after about 5 years of not seeing eachother and hung out a few times and actually really hit things off. He's really grown up a lot and I really, really like the person he's become. The only problem is he's mentioned the physical aspect of a relationship being really important to him and that's something that scares me because while I have had some sexual experience in the past, I haven't gone "all the way" and I don't want things to move too quickly with us. I've expressed my feelings about sex to him and he said we'd slow down but lately he's expressed being sexually frustrated and each time he makes comments like that, I feel like I'm letting him down and like I'm causing a problem by standing my ground about not wanting to have sex. I know I'm technically doing the right thing but this issue seems to keep coming up and it's still so early in our relationship. I really want to be with him but if this is going to keep being a problem, I'm not sure how long we'll last. Any advice?