ok so the sex is great, it never used to be like this but im neverin the mood. weve gone weeks even months without doing anything, and ive knowticed that wen im not on my birth control, everything changes. i want to. im on the nuva ring so its not a pill or shot or patch. and i love it. but i cant just stop using birth control and start using condoms cuz i think they are disgusting. i have my normal periods and all that. i feel bad cuz i cant even get into the mood out of the kindness of my heart for him and i know he wants to. he proves his point almost every night. help???