Basically I will be getting a second opinion, surgery wise. this is a workmens comp issue. i went to a dr of my choice for a second opinion. (a neurosurgeon)..as this particular dr does not like workmens comp, and bases things on his own conclusions, based upon the MRI's and his own testing on me....he doesnt tell wc what they want to hear. However, this dr no longer does surgeries, due to his own back issues, which is another reason I wanted this dr. He KNOWS the pain that his patients endure, so he is compassionate and understanding. He only does second opinions and recommendations, as well as rating/releasing. So, he is sending me to another dr...a neurosurgeon as well. I have wanted this dr (it could not be my choice, as Im only allowed one 2nd opinion) and got lucky that I will be sent to him. He performed a back surgery on one of my former co-workers and I have always heard good things about him.
My husband had a ruptured disc 20+ years ago, and had surgery....then a few months later had to have it again. He suffers daily with his back and has arthritis and scar tissue. So, naturally, he is advising me against having surgery, due to his experiences. He ruptured another disc in Dec. '04. It, too, was a WC issue. That dr told him that they have found that discs get better on their own within 5 years...to tough it out and do exercises. My husband says he is "getting better", however, he still complains, and has rotten days, depending on what he does that day or days before. So, I personally dont see the benefit of waiting it out. He is a very tough man...and in 17 years of marriage, I have only seen him "down" and in the bed 3 weeks total....and that was when this last disc ruptured. He continues to do things that I would NEVER attempt to do. He doesnt let it rule his life....but I am just not that "strong". Im terrified of doing something to make things worse....the pain is bad enough, I just dont want to risk causing further injury...more pain.
I guess its a decision I am going to have to decide for myself. I dont know when I will see this other dr. Am waiting on that appt. to be set. Thanks to all of you for your input.