I hear ya......personally I think the guys (mostly wingers) that always ride in the day glo riding suits look like dorks....BUT
Two aquaintances (one of whom is a VERY safe rider, and always wears ATGATT) were taken out last week on highways. (they will both survive, but one of em won't walk unassisted for a few months)
Having said that, I am going to the dealership this afternoon to look at one of the hi-viz riding jackets that HD sells.