My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 yrs now and have a beautiful 9 mo. old baby girl. We have been really stressed lately but I still want to have sex and he doesn't, and I mean ever. We have sex maybe once a month. It is very frustrating for my because I don't do well with masturbation and I get very sexually deprived. It can't be the fact that I gave birth because like some freak of nature I was 103lbs pre-pregnancy and 104lbs post-pregnancy. Not to toot my own horn but I look pretty good for having had a baby. Anyways I don't know what can get him to want to have sex with me. I've tried everything it feels and no luck. Please help!