Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years and I just met his oldest sister and her family a little over a year ago. We hit it off well and quickly built a good relationship. Me and my boyfriend would always help her out and we loved all 3 of her boys. About 6 months ago we got into an argument because of a bunch of "he said...she said..." between my friend and my boyfriends sister. We talked everything through and made peace. Now 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriends sister went out to get our nails done and hang out. During our day we had normal conversations about all kinds of stuff. The next day my boyfriends mom is super pissed at me because his sister went and took everything I said and twisted it into me talking bad about the family. My boyfriend talked to his sister and she told him the truth (our real conversation) and she told the parents a twisted version and she admitted to doing it. But now she just keeps changing her story. My boyfriend is mad at her about the whole thing and when the mom tried talking to her she has made it clear that I'm not part of the family in her eye's. On Father's Day we had a get together and she came down with her family. I don't know what she said (she claims she did nothing) but none of her kids would talk to me or my boyfriend. She lives down the road and his family always has get togethers such as next week we have a wedding to go to. I know we need to co-exist but i also know she is just gonna be fake and pretend to get along with me. I'm really not ready to talk to her let alone see her but their mom want's us to talk before the wedding. So the big question is
What should I do about EVERYTHING?
What should I do about EVERYTHING?