Before you read if all you're gonna say is "be yourself" please don't. If that was working I wouldn't be having this problem right now. Now for a while I've been having this issue of where I've wanted to change my image (both outward and inward). Problem is, I don't know which direction to take. I don't know if I should be the cool, Jordan(sneaker) wearing, laid back, oakley wearing, kinda thuggy party boy who listens to hip hop or if I should be the funny, witty, vans wearing, all American boy who listens to Linkin Park. I know this may sound stupid but I seriously need some opinions on which one seems more attractive (I don't just mean "hot"). I've been "me" for 16 years now and it's gotten me nowhere so I need a change of lifestyle and I just need opinions.