My husband (30yrs old) has never had any issues getting an erection, or keeping it, etc. I would say that throughout our 3 years of marriage, he doesn't have the strongest of sex drive, but it's been really bad lately. I've been the only one to initiate, and I get rejected almost all of the time now. Not only does he not want to have sex, but he doesn't like it when I touch him in any manner, and has stopped being affectionate with me. He still says he loves me, but when I approach him (nicely) about any aspect of this, he gets EXTREMELY mad. He told me last week that he loves me but feels nothing when I touch him. He said he has no desire to have sex, but his "equipment" still works. He went to the doctor and had blood work and EKG done. Everything was within normal limits. He is not on any prescriptions that would cause it either. Last night I tried to initiate again. Got shot down. I told him that I was so attracted to him and wanted to make love to him, and he got angry. I tried to tell him what I wanted him to do to me to turn him on...he got angrier. As a result, he started screaming at me and said that he really hated me sometimes. I'm left feeling like crap. I feel so empty inside. We don't even talk to each other anymore. I don't know what to do!!! Men, if you understand what is happening with my hubby, could you please explain? Or ladies, if you've experienced this in your marriage, please help!! Thanks!
He did have testosterone checked...was on the low end of "within normal limits", but doc didn't seem concerned. They did SED rate, and many other tests and they all came back fine.
Oh, and BTW, our house is immaculate, I'm a really good cook, and I always wear makeup and work out every day, have an awesome "drive', so I'm no slouch around the house.
He did have testosterone checked...was on the low end of "within normal limits", but doc didn't seem concerned. They did SED rate, and many other tests and they all came back fine.
Oh, and BTW, our house is immaculate, I'm a really good cook, and I always wear makeup and work out every day, have an awesome "drive', so I'm no slouch around the house.