back when we met he blew his money to the wind and I took charge and paid bills and saved for trips etc. FFWD 7 years and after feeling incredibly repressed and controlled we seperated. I was gone 3 months and like any teenager free of their parents I did blow a few hundred $$s on partying etc.. nothing outlandish tho but maybe like $500-600 over the last few weeks i was out.
we got back together, i gave him control of my money and bills, all my plastic and have had a PT job for 6 weeks now as a CASHIER... this is a far cry from my office job but i'm trying to fix things. i'm working 70+ hours a week and now he's made reference to my needing to be punished for what I did. I know I messed up and i'm obviously trying to fix it but why say something like that? i feel like he's trying to control again.. am i being paranoid or is he getting in an old routine?
advice?
I really dislike Texas.. please go be your own state.
he tried after to smooth it over and say i needed the life experience.. i am 2% over my credit borrowing debt-to-income. he insisted i get a fancy car and etc.. i'm trying to consolidate bills but he has to cosign and wont because of all that up there. its only a matter of a few months until i'm below that % again.. and im only 2% over but it would help greatly with interest etc.. idk
country.. sheesh been a long day
we got back together, i gave him control of my money and bills, all my plastic and have had a PT job for 6 weeks now as a CASHIER... this is a far cry from my office job but i'm trying to fix things. i'm working 70+ hours a week and now he's made reference to my needing to be punished for what I did. I know I messed up and i'm obviously trying to fix it but why say something like that? i feel like he's trying to control again.. am i being paranoid or is he getting in an old routine?
advice?
I really dislike Texas.. please go be your own state.
he tried after to smooth it over and say i needed the life experience.. i am 2% over my credit borrowing debt-to-income. he insisted i get a fancy car and etc.. i'm trying to consolidate bills but he has to cosign and wont because of all that up there. its only a matter of a few months until i'm below that % again.. and im only 2% over but it would help greatly with interest etc.. idk
country.. sheesh been a long day