My wife won't stop whining. What should I do?

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Bob Bobby

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My wife won't stop crying. She keeps blabbing about how I don't pay attention to her when she is talking. She talks about such boring things. Such as, gardening, fashion, and shopping etc. I also give her simple demands and she fails to follow them. Such as, ironing my cloths everyday before work, cooking my meals on time, taking off my shoes, getting me something to drink when I am thirsty etc. She has a lot of work to do on her part. Many Improvements.

I love her a bunch she just can't ever keep her mouth shut. It drives me crazy. Why can't she just cook, clean and lay down with me when I ask for it. That is all I ask for. Not a 10 minute conversation about nothing.......I swear sometimes I think women just have to know their places.

Now that I think about it, I can handle the "lay down with-me demand". I have plenty of "friends". Everything else she should abide by. Its that simple.

Don't you think?
 
You can't possibly be serious, can you? If you are, You are lucky that whining and crying is all that she does to you.
Have to wonder why you married someone with so many "imperfections". The idea of a marriage is that both partners do for each other out of respect and love--not demands, threats, or selfishness.
The way to build respect is to treat the other person with respect. You are definitely not treating your "partner" with respect, but more like a slave that is there to do your bidding "on demand".
The indication is that you don't respect yourself, or others, and can't imagine that someone would participate in a relationship with you unless you demand that participation.
You don't seem to like anything about her. Perhaps you two should make other living arrangements as soon as possible.
 
How did you con her into marrying you? The only area of improvement she needs is in finding a kick@ss divorce attorney.
 
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