We are coming up to near 1 year of being married, and prior to that 3 years of being a couple and living together.
My wife was my first partner and also first person I had been intimate with on any level. However she had partners previously and was not a virgin.
In our time together we have only been intimate 3 times, each of which were anything but spectacular I will admit namely due to my inexperience. It was anything but a desire for her to to want to par-take beyond the first time, I actually had to almost beg which simply made it seem pointless, and the 3rd time I kind of took as a pity attempt to hush my concerns after I wanted to talk to her about it.
She has commented on it saying things like she does not feel anything so does not want to do it, that changed later to it apparently hurting her... quite some time after meanwhile and well after our last time.
I don't know what to do, she seems content, but I feel that she is becoming more like a female friend than being my wife who I can share something with that I would not with anyone else.
Without making it seem like I'm begging or creating an issue about it, I don't know how to approach this in order for us to have a healthy relationship.
My wife was my first partner and also first person I had been intimate with on any level. However she had partners previously and was not a virgin.
In our time together we have only been intimate 3 times, each of which were anything but spectacular I will admit namely due to my inexperience. It was anything but a desire for her to to want to par-take beyond the first time, I actually had to almost beg which simply made it seem pointless, and the 3rd time I kind of took as a pity attempt to hush my concerns after I wanted to talk to her about it.
She has commented on it saying things like she does not feel anything so does not want to do it, that changed later to it apparently hurting her... quite some time after meanwhile and well after our last time.
I don't know what to do, she seems content, but I feel that she is becoming more like a female friend than being my wife who I can share something with that I would not with anyone else.
Without making it seem like I'm begging or creating an issue about it, I don't know how to approach this in order for us to have a healthy relationship.