portuguesesonneteer
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My wife and I are having some issues. We both know it. Here they are:
1. I have to pay 90% of the bills.
2. I have to do 75% of the housework.
3. She says she is just lazy, she doesn't want to work around the house.
4. Her lack of participation in the household makes her unattractive to me.
5. When I am not attracted to her in a sexual way, she says I am not a normal man.
6. I have tried several times to talk about it but she pulls a blanket over her head or goes silent.
I love her and I hate the idea of getting divorced, but I am suffering. I am considering a "chore chart" or counseling. When I've tried to organization chores before I was told that I treat her like a 5 year old and I think I am her dad. Twice before we made major agreements where she would do certain things around the house and I would do something she wanted...you can guess what happened.
1. I have to pay 90% of the bills.
2. I have to do 75% of the housework.
3. She says she is just lazy, she doesn't want to work around the house.
4. Her lack of participation in the household makes her unattractive to me.
5. When I am not attracted to her in a sexual way, she says I am not a normal man.
6. I have tried several times to talk about it but she pulls a blanket over her head or goes silent.
I love her and I hate the idea of getting divorced, but I am suffering. I am considering a "chore chart" or counseling. When I've tried to organization chores before I was told that I treat her like a 5 year old and I think I am her dad. Twice before we made major agreements where she would do certain things around the house and I would do something she wanted...you can guess what happened.