We live in different parts of the country because of our jobs..everthing about her reminds me of her fling and already it is affecting my job. I am loosing concentration at work. I feel better when she is not with me but when she turns up to visit the children I get really depressed. Recently she transffered back to my hometwon to work and this brought back so much anger. Please help with some advice.
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My wife had a fling and i am unable to forget it. Its killing me.?
- Thread starter VANDAME
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Sorry to hear she cheated.
You will always remember, unfortunately, and have triggers.
Marriage counselling, total transparency on her part, and ZERO contact is a must in order to recover/restore your marriage.
If you still can't forgive her or it's weighing on you, you may want to think if you can stay in a relationship where you can't get past this betrayal.
Been there--we ended up divorcing. The images I had in my mind still plague me to this day. I have a lot of trust issues w/ people since. He was my world and lied to me saying he'd never ever cheat on me. He did.
You will always remember, unfortunately, and have triggers.
Marriage counselling, total transparency on her part, and ZERO contact is a must in order to recover/restore your marriage.
If you still can't forgive her or it's weighing on you, you may want to think if you can stay in a relationship where you can't get past this betrayal.
Been there--we ended up divorcing. The images I had in my mind still plague me to this day. I have a lot of trust issues w/ people since. He was my world and lied to me saying he'd never ever cheat on me. He did.