My wife does not like to make the first move when it comes to sex.?

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Mario

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We have been married for 13 years now. It did not bother me back then. Now after 13 years it bothers me. She is 30 and I am 28. I thought it would go away after time, but no she did not change. I always have to be the first one to ask for it. I talked to her about it and she said the attraction is their, desire, and pleasure. She said, that she has gotten so used to me making the first move, and does know how to ask me. It makes her feel sluty. She enjoys the sex so much when we do it. Do you think she is lying? How can I correct the problem?
 
you should have said something at the beginning of your relationship to correct it, thats gonna be hard to brake that habit now
 
The problem is you got her use to you asking first thats why what you got to do is talk to her let her know how she feels and when does she feeling like having sex just talk talking is the key to a good and healthy marriage and sex life
 
I am a woman and my husband and I have the same problem. She is bored of the same routine. Spice things up. Surprise her. Talk to her ask her what she likes. I don't think she is lying cuz I know where she is coming from. Spice things up by doing things in different places use your imagination. And go to a sex store. Surprise her and she will be hesitant at first trying new things. Just talk to her get her to open up.
 
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