she is very antisocial.? Before i knew her my wife told me that she didn't like black American men; my wife family is from haiti and she is very racist to american people. She doesn't speak to me at all, she just sleeps in my guest room and only comes out when my wife comes home from work; i try to be nice to her cause my wife is very close to her, but she is very annoying. do i have a problem or iam i overreacting if someone lives in your house do you have to talk to them or should i just stay away from her.