My period is a week late. I have had it for 2.5 years. Im 14. I have had sex 7-10

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melissa

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times. Help!? I am 14 years old. My period was supposed to come on the fourth of July... But never did. I am kinda scared. Because I have had sex a few times with my boyfriend who is 17, Yes we know the age differnce and know the consequences. And no he isn't using me. So don't call me a slut. He used a condom every time. But he has came on me and stuff and the condom has like gotten stuck.. ha. I am quite scared and do not know what to do. I am not on birth control but my doctor prescribed it for me the other day to help cramps. I can't tell my mom about any of this though. We really don't get along. I probably sound bad saying this but I am actually not. I am over all a good kid. And I was ready for sex. I just don't know what to do. I only have had sex with him also. PLEASE HELP! thanks.

_Mel
 
I dont deny you are a good kid and thats just it a kid if you are so freaked out about this you are in no way ready for sex People who are ready for sex are also ready for the consequences that come along with sex and are also not "afraid" to talk to their parents you may be pregnant so its time to women up and talk to mommy no matter if you get along or not
 
First of all, stay calm.
Wait a little bit to see whether or not your period comes. If you're really anxious though then you can always get a pregnancy test. And remember, if you ARE pregnant and you don't feel ready to have a child then abortions are always available. I don't know where you live but there is always a health clinic in every town or city that specializes in teen health care. They do abortions generally at low prices or for free. For further research I would check this online. In any case, even if you don't have one near you, you do not need a parent for an abortion. Therefore your mom doesn't need to know if you are in fact pregnant. If you would like support though, if your boyfriend's mother knows and is comfortable going then she could come with you, along with him of course.

Hopefully your period comes soon but otherwise don't freak out. There is always another option. And I would start using the pills a.s.a.p. because as I'm sure you know, having both the pill and condems decrease the odds of getting pregnant by a lot!

Good luck
 
Your 14, way to young even if he is your boyfriend. You could be pregnant...Yet ANOTHER 14 year old mother..
Get a pregnancy test, and no you weren't ready for sex.
 
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