My partner of 13yrs split up with me 2 weeks ago cos some guy from a mobile chat

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Steve P

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site been involved with her? sending filthy pics and vids back and forth to each other and saying they love eachother along with dirty messages. She says she dont want me back but it is only because of this guy from the net. We met last week and she had sex with me and when we finished she said this will never happen again so dont expect to come back. Every time wespeak she makes a point of saying she aint having me back. We have 4 kids together and she wants to let this all go on some internet fantasy. Why is she doing this to me? I am on loads of depression pills and lost 3 stone in weight while constantly crying to family and friends and psychiatrists about it. I sent her expensive roses and an expensive necklace and all i had was 1 text saying " the stuff you sent me is here".
I want her back what can I do?
 
when a mate becomes involved with someone else, no matter what u do right now it won;t matter to her because she thinks she loves this person. u are wasting your time trying to win someone back who clearly doesn't want u. its not about u or anything u did to her, the problem lies within her. u need to join a self help therapy group that deals with grief, and divorce survival. the more u try here the worse your going to feel. when someone doesn't want u, the best thing u can do is to accept it because its when u don't accept it it can and will harm u emotionally. i would file for divorce, and try to take care of u instead of trying to get someone back who has disrespected u.
 
Right now she is in the throes of Lust and feels that the grass will be greener with this other guy. You can do nothing about it - you were not married, so she can just walk away.
Go back to her place and ask for your gifts back - she does not want them, then work out a time where you can have access to your children - they are the important ones here and just say that you will be available for a chat if she needs to talk to someone - do not grovel and do not become a doormat. She will eventually realise that Lust is not the same as love and will either try to come back or move on - if she does want to come back - don't say yes straight away - think really hard about it - she obviously did not respect you enough- if she comes back she comes back on your terms - by then you would have had time to clear your head and decide what you want out of life - by all means remain friends but nothing else until the time is right - she is treating you the same way some guys treat some of women - its disrespectful to you as a person, get some self confidence and with you losing 3 stone you must be looking pretty good... maybe with a bit of confidence and a spring in your step you might find other ladies looking at you....
 
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