My partner and I started swinging recently, and now I'm bored of sex?

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My boyfriend and I started swininging about 6 months ago and now I don't enjoy sex anymore. We used to have great sex before but now it all seems so superficial and boring I just can't get aroused. He says it's because my other partner is bigger and therefore he can no longer satify me, but the other guy doesn't please me either. What can I do?
 
Honestly, your relationship is ruined. I know everyone feels that it's mutual and you both decided to let other people into your relationship, but now you see why it's never a good idea. He is obsessed with the other guy and you don't even want either of them anymore.
 
It sounds to me that your partner is making excuses and is afraid you will be putting a halt to the swinging thing and he's enjoying it.

Just stop having sex awhile and only do it when your in the mood. Your making it SOUND like your being forced to do it. It shouldn't be that way.
 
Stop swinging and learn more about what real love and commitment are. Once you understand those concepts your love life might become more fulfilling to the both of you.
 
Not uncommon for sex to become boring after all of the variations have been exhausted. That is because you are using sex for excitement rather than an expression of love. Sex is only exciting at first. After that it because either a "chore" or an expression of love. Sorry. You may need to move on and find some one to love, with sex just being part of a relationship rather than the end.
 
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