My parents won't talk about sex!!!!?

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All they say is don't do it. I don't know why I want them to talk to me about it but I do. I'm 21 and I'm basically a virgin. I'm Christian but my parents have said nada about it. Anytime I bring it up they start going nuts and act like its something bad. Actually everybody I know looks at it like its bad. I just don't want to be ready to do it then crack up cause its something I've never thought was ok to talk about. Help here please. What the heck do i do?
I mean I know all about it. It just pisses m off at how retarded they act. The treat me like a fucking kid. It's scarring. I mean I love my parents but damn. I hate how they say nothing about sex but then are all "don't do it". Why are they trying to control me!?
 
Well you and your parents should have discussed this subject along time ago. You are 21 now and need some guidence, try reading books on it. Being a Christian does not mean you do not have desires or not want sex, you are human. Try talking with your mother not father about sex. Tell her you need some wisdom passed on about it, not that you are thinking about having it but are just wanting her thoughts.

Oh and for all of you out there. I have discussed sex with my children at a age that I knew was wise. My daughter is 26 and we still have open discussions together because she knows I will not judge her for whatever she is thinking and wanting to ask me. I am sure she does not tell me everything but it is nice that she knows she can talk to me about anything she needs to. I am sorry this young lady is not getting the help she needs to understand what alot of us take for granted.
 
Daisy is right. What im wondering is why they havent talked to you about it yet. Your freaking 21. Just ask them whats the big freakin deal. YOUR 21!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Your 21? Maybe They Feel Awkward talking about it with you. Did your teachers talk about it in school?
 
This is probably not the best place to look for an answer to this one. I too am a Christian and I think we should wait til marriage. As for talking to someone about it, maybe you need to talk to someone besides your parents if they're uncomfortable with it. A Christian preferably, someone who shares the same beliefs. Maybe there's someone you know from church you can talk to?
 
What is it you're wanting to know about it?

The Christians standpoint on it is that it is intended for pleasure and procreation and is to be reserved for the sanctity of marriage.

If you are wanting to learn more about the physical aspect of it there are lots of informative books that will help you understand the physical and emotional sides of it.
 
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