sorry tho ur kind of stuck tho try to use the daddy's little girl move like say daddy ur so hard working the first day and b nice and all then keep on being nice and complementing him and being like ur the best for a week then after a week or 3 days to make it short say daddy i love u tho u know how i want to b able to get a bike and ride down to school if u let me i'll show u i'm responsible and if he says no say that i thought u loved me and i thought u understand me and trust me enough to let me do so tho i guess not then fake cry or if ur crying for real by then that helps lol sorry i am really good at fake crying and i always get my way lol and if he still says no always act sad and he'll give in trust me
My parents won't let me bike to school, how can I let them buy me and bike & let me?
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sorry tho ur kind of stuck tho try to use the daddy's little girl move like say daddy ur so hard working the first day and b nice and all then keep on being nice and complementing him and being like ur the best for a week then after a week or 3 days to make it short say daddy i love u tho u know how i want to b able to get a bike and ride down to school if u let me i'll show u i'm responsible and if he says no say that i thought u loved me and i thought u understand me and trust me enough to let me do so tho i guess not then fake cry or if ur crying for real by then that helps lol sorry i am really good at fake crying and i always get my way lol and if he still says no always act sad and he'll give in trust me
sorry tho ur kind of stuck tho try to use the daddy's little girl move like say daddy ur so hard working the first day and b nice and all then keep on being nice and complementing him and being like ur the best for a week then after a week or 3 days to make it short say daddy i love u tho u know how i want to b able to get a bike and ride down to school if u let me i'll show u i'm responsible and if he says no say that i thought u loved me and i thought u understand me and trust me enough to let me do so tho i guess not then fake cry or if ur crying for real by then that helps lol sorry i am really good at fake crying and i always get my way lol and if he still says no always act sad and he'll give in trust me
K, it's kinda long but read on.
This year I'm in high school and I REALLY want to bike to school. My high school is just down the street and if you drive there it only takes A MINUTE to get there. My parents are refusing to buy me a bike and it's driving me mad. I could walk there (but I prefer a bike, plus it's more fun to bike) but my parents said "NO we'll drive you it doesn't matter" They're just wasting gas and money just dropping me off and picking me up everyday.
During summer vacation my cousin (who lives one state away) offered me to have his bike for free and my dad didn't want to bring it home because there's "no more space in the car" and 'promised' he'll buy me a bike when we're back home and he lied. He told me he'll buy me a bike on christmas but after christmas I only get to ride my bike for a few months
I really REALLY want to ride a bike home and to school.
And I'm pretty sure they're not letting me buy a bike because of safety reasons either. They just don't feel like letting me buy a bike because it's too 'hot' outside but it's only upper 80s/90s. And when it gets to winter/spring time they're gonna say it's too 'cold.' I can't save up money either by doing chores. I already do chores and don't get paid (they don't feel it's neccessary) Oh and they won't let me walk either, they have same rules for walking and biking too -__-
I can't, I'm only 14. And they don't give me allowance or even pay me when I do chores. They don't think it's necessary.
This year I'm in high school and I REALLY want to bike to school. My high school is just down the street and if you drive there it only takes A MINUTE to get there. My parents are refusing to buy me a bike and it's driving me mad. I could walk there (but I prefer a bike, plus it's more fun to bike) but my parents said "NO we'll drive you it doesn't matter" They're just wasting gas and money just dropping me off and picking me up everyday.
During summer vacation my cousin (who lives one state away) offered me to have his bike for free and my dad didn't want to bring it home because there's "no more space in the car" and 'promised' he'll buy me a bike when we're back home and he lied. He told me he'll buy me a bike on christmas but after christmas I only get to ride my bike for a few months
I really REALLY want to ride a bike home and to school.And I'm pretty sure they're not letting me buy a bike because of safety reasons either. They just don't feel like letting me buy a bike because it's too 'hot' outside but it's only upper 80s/90s. And when it gets to winter/spring time they're gonna say it's too 'cold.' I can't save up money either by doing chores. I already do chores and don't get paid (they don't feel it's neccessary) Oh and they won't let me walk either, they have same rules for walking and biking too -__-
I can't, I'm only 14. And they don't give me allowance or even pay me when I do chores. They don't think it's necessary.
sorry tho ur kind of stuck tho try to use the daddy's little girl move like say daddy ur so hard working the first day and b nice and all then keep on being nice and complementing him and being like ur the best for a week then after a week or 3 days to make it short say daddy i love u tho u know how i want to b able to get a bike and ride down to school if u let me i'll show u i'm responsible and if he says no say that i thought u loved me and i thought u understand me and trust me enough to let me do so tho i guess not then fake cry or if ur crying for real by then that helps lol sorry i am really good at fake crying and i always get my way lol and if he still says no always act sad and he'll give in trust me
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Sounds to me like your parents don't trust your level of maturity as much as you'd like them to. Here's an idea to address that problem, as well as the bike:
Look around for odd jobs in the neighborhood, etc... anything to make a few dollars here and there (legally and responsibly, of course!). Put together enough money for the bike (or at least for most of it), and then go back to your parents with a plans, i.e. "I've worked really hard to earn and save the money for this bike, and I've written up a list of rules of the road to follow while riding to school. Will you work together with me to make this happen in a way that we're all comfortable with?" If you present yourself as a mature, responsible young adult, there's a much better chance they'll respond to you as one.
Good Luck!
Look around for odd jobs in the neighborhood, etc... anything to make a few dollars here and there (legally and responsibly, of course!). Put together enough money for the bike (or at least for most of it), and then go back to your parents with a plans, i.e. "I've worked really hard to earn and save the money for this bike, and I've written up a list of rules of the road to follow while riding to school. Will you work together with me to make this happen in a way that we're all comfortable with?" If you present yourself as a mature, responsible young adult, there's a much better chance they'll respond to you as one.
Good Luck!