My parents are arguing?

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Kelsey

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My parents are CONSTANTLY arguing! they are always yelling at each other, saying some intense stuff. they love both me and my brother very much, and they try to hide there fighting but they cant. My dad isn't quite as healthy as i want him to be... he has HIGH blood pressure (he smokes). and it really upsets me, and worries me when they fight. i REALLY worry about my dad. he's 50, and a VERY stressed our lawyer.. any advice? I constantly tell him I love him... but i don't know... any advice (not concealing or therapy) that will help my parents stop arguing, my worries about my dad, and my dad himself?

They love both my brother and I very much, and they try to not fight but it just slips.
 
they need to end it or get professional help, it's not fair for u or your brother to go through that and they need to be the adults and fix it...there is nothing u can do
 
aww u r suchh a sweetiee worrying for your parents sake!! aw i used to do that but hun everythin turned out fine for me. when my mom was in a good mood i would go to her and soften her up yet try to get answers by saying something like "mommy i really care for you &daddy and i love u both so muuch! But, i am worried about u both, i mean you both love eachother yet you fight alot. Maybe you should apoligize or something so that you guys get along a bit better.." then you can say about the same thing to your daddy!! XOXO. You sound just like me!! and you sound pretty smart=). i hope i helped!! Maybe you can try to answer minee..? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atz0VI2JSySFO2WzyI_kX.Lsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091213202643AAUfAXl
 
im so sorry that you are going through this. i say tell your parents everything you feel one on one then both together. it is very importnat to let them know everything you feel about them. let him know that his smoking scares you because my dad smoking scares me too and its hard to understand they are in control not us :/ him having high blood pressure is very serious so try to go out with him to the mall and the park and different ways of exercising. try to surprise him with healthy foods its important to give him support. Hope it helps! :]
 
If you don't want counseling or therapy, then you must take the bull by the horns, so to speak, and talk with your parents about how all this is effecting you and your brother. They need to know.

If you can't approach them directly, write them a letter, and hand it to them.

Obviously, they are going through something very tough. But they need to know how their fighting and arguing effects you and your brother.

Best of luck.
 
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