Wonderingaway
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Why was he doing that? I recently took a trip to a major city with a girl friend of mine and her male friend whom I am aquaintances with. I don't know him very well, but lived in the same building as him at our university. We became friends on the trip and I genuinely think he is very fun and interesting and am interested in being better friends with him. We talked until 3am the first night of the trip, so I know we'd be awesome friends.
However, his behavior the next day the trip confused me. I kept on feeling like he was coming on to me or acting weird, trying to hold my gaze and staying unnecessarilt close physically. On the subway or cab rides, he would sit so close to me that our thighs would be touching, even though there was room to spread out in. It just felt like he was trying to get close to me physically all of a sudden. I didn't do anything about it since that'd make the whole situation more bizarre.
I say this is bizarre because he never showed any interest in me the whole year until now. I know he had a girlfriend the whole year and they recently broke up which is why he was acting that way. That night, things got stranger when he and my friend got really drunk in out hotel room, like 15 shots each. I was pretty drunk but had only 4 drinks so I wasn't at their level. We started a game of truth or dare with some weird dares. For example, this guy made me wash his hair for him while he was shirtless and I had to dress him afterward. I also had to ride him around the room on his back and he wouldn't let go. He also kept on hinting to my other friend that he should be dared to make out with me but he was never dared that at the end. He was pretty touchy the whole time and I felt like there was this weird tension that kind of made me uncomfortable.
The weirdest part was that I ended up sleeping in his bed that night. My girl friend was not done vomiting so I was afraid that she'd throw up on me if I slept there. At another friend's suggestion, I slept in the guy's bed and this was after he'd passed out already after me having taken care of him while he threw up. It was a bad judgement on my part that was made because I was drunk and didn't want to sleep on the floor. Nothing happened though - I made sure that I slept on the edge of the bed far away from him.
He was acting really strangely the next day, like not as friendly as before. It was a complete turnaround.
Why was he acting this way? And why was he being so flirtatious the night before? I think I may have flirted back because I was drunk but I can't remember. What should I make of this whole thing? Is the answer simple: He was horny and drunk. Guys are horny and get hornier when they are drunk. I thought it was weird that he was hitting on me kind of when he was sober, though.
However, his behavior the next day the trip confused me. I kept on feeling like he was coming on to me or acting weird, trying to hold my gaze and staying unnecessarilt close physically. On the subway or cab rides, he would sit so close to me that our thighs would be touching, even though there was room to spread out in. It just felt like he was trying to get close to me physically all of a sudden. I didn't do anything about it since that'd make the whole situation more bizarre.
I say this is bizarre because he never showed any interest in me the whole year until now. I know he had a girlfriend the whole year and they recently broke up which is why he was acting that way. That night, things got stranger when he and my friend got really drunk in out hotel room, like 15 shots each. I was pretty drunk but had only 4 drinks so I wasn't at their level. We started a game of truth or dare with some weird dares. For example, this guy made me wash his hair for him while he was shirtless and I had to dress him afterward. I also had to ride him around the room on his back and he wouldn't let go. He also kept on hinting to my other friend that he should be dared to make out with me but he was never dared that at the end. He was pretty touchy the whole time and I felt like there was this weird tension that kind of made me uncomfortable.
The weirdest part was that I ended up sleeping in his bed that night. My girl friend was not done vomiting so I was afraid that she'd throw up on me if I slept there. At another friend's suggestion, I slept in the guy's bed and this was after he'd passed out already after me having taken care of him while he threw up. It was a bad judgement on my part that was made because I was drunk and didn't want to sleep on the floor. Nothing happened though - I made sure that I slept on the edge of the bed far away from him.
He was acting really strangely the next day, like not as friendly as before. It was a complete turnaround.
Why was he acting this way? And why was he being so flirtatious the night before? I think I may have flirted back because I was drunk but I can't remember. What should I make of this whole thing? Is the answer simple: He was horny and drunk. Guys are horny and get hornier when they are drunk. I thought it was weird that he was hitting on me kind of when he was sober, though.