my mother keeps going through my backpack and room i ask her not to but she wont stop...

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...how can i make her stop? She wont listen to me i have nothing to hide but i don't like people shifting through my belonging i don't touch her things and if i did i would get yelled at even grounded she even reads my journals and day-books which is really none of her business.
 
lock things you dont want her going though shut, or put little notes in them saying something like "If you're reading this then you shouldn't be here"
 
put gross stuff in them, i put a dead gold fish in a baggie , or a dead lizard or and dead mouse.. she will quit..
 
Your mother has the authority to go through your things like that. Because she is responsible for your well-being according to law. And the same law gives her authority over you, until you turn 18 years of age.

You can ask her not to go through your things like that. But it's up to her to decide what to do. And there is no much you can do about it, until you turn 18 years of age. Which is when you will have the freedom to move out and live on your own.
 
thats what my mom does she will not stop!
last year me and my freind (who now is moved) used to pass notes to eachother in class,, and we were 14 what do you expect we had swear words written down all over lol and the note my mom read was about this one club and how there were so many hot guys there and how fun it was and fake id's and WOW it cannot get worse than that.
then she found the note held it above my head and told me to read it too her and i couldnt get it away from her and then she GROUNDED ME wtf.

tell her you want your privacy thats what i did. then cry alittle bit and act really hurt likee she betrayed your trust. not forever just for a little bit to make her think about it.
 
hide ur things. like ur journal, u shuld hide that under ur matress, she wuldnt think bout lookin there.
 
Your mom has an absolute RIGHT and a DUTY to search your backpack and the room she allows you to sleep in,which is in HER HOUSE .Although she should not read your journals,because those are your personal thoughts.

You can expect privacy ,when you are an adult and paying your own bills in your own house.
 
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