My mom

oh my...I know..I saw my father die..3long painful years of watching him die slowly n bit by bit going away.. he stayed home for 3days with a broken leg becouse he knew that when he goes to the hospital now it's gonna be the last time he will ever go there..and he won't come home either.. so well he got cancer first in his throat, then liver and then in the lungs..he would of never survived
I hope your mom will be alright. :hug2:
 
Well, I am here to say that my mom may be comming home from the hospital Monday. I still don't know all the details yet, the last thing I heard was that the cancer had eaten a hole in her bile duct(a part of her stomach where all the acids are). They had given her a tube that went from her nose to her stomach to vacum out the acid fluids flowing out of the hole. A few days after that, they had taken the tube out. She was still not allowed to eat anything, all she could have to keep her mouth from not drying out was ice chips. Yesterday, they let her have liquid stuff like chicken broth, jello, and pudden. Today, they let her eat a sandwich. She was craving a burger but she cannot have anything heavy or greasy like that. She is also not allowed to have any kind of carbinated drinks, because it will burn her stomach. I still don't know what is going on with her stomach as far as the hole is concerned. They have to take more x-rays on that to figure it out. The only problem with that is they cannot operate on her anyway no matter how big the whole is, because of the condition she is in.

In all of what I am saying, is that she maybe comming home, but she is not healthy and may pass away in the confort of her own home with the family she loves. That is all the doctors can do for us and her.
 
...sorry *gives a big hug*, but they gave my dad a few months to live..he lived 2years before he couldn't struggle anymore..with my experience..you have to talk out about it then..and not get as fucked up as I got..but that is not the point *gives a big big hug*
 
Pancreatic Cancer is one of the rarest cancers I hear. it only attacks 1 in 500 thousand people under age 50.

its really sad she has it. I hope she pulls through. Ill pray for your mom. thats messed up. How old is she btw? I should lay off the alcohol. I was told it is caused by smoking. My brother had pacreatitis and had most of his pancrease taken out. He had triglycerides of 7800 which is almost unheard of. It was one for the medical books.

He is a diabetic now. Is it possible that they can just remove the cancer in the part of the pancrease? Its too bad the pancrease cant be taken out entirely. People can not live without it. And I understand its the only organ besides a brain that cant be transplaneted.

Sorry my friend. Some people do pull through with no reoccurence in 5 years.
 
Guess what, I was wrong. You can live without a pancrease. Sorry. Maybe your mom should just have it removed and take insulin shots. I am reading up on it now.

But I know she will pull through
 
More info. I dont think Alcohol is connected to pacreatic cancer. Smokers and people with diabetis are more likely. And again.. it clearly says almost all people over 50 get it. Black American Males get it the most.

The comedian Bill Hicks (Though his was found too late) died from it at age 36. Very very rare but his father had it and that raised his odds.

Sorry guy, Dont be afraid. Your mom has it way in her favore because they found it early.


Overview: Pancreatic Cancer
What Causes Pancreatic Cancer? Can It Be Prevented?

While we still do not know exactly what causes most cases of pancreatic cancer, several risk factors have been linked to the disease. A risk factor is something that affects a person's chance of getting a disease such as cancer. Some risk factors, such as smoking, can be controlled. Others, like a person's age or race, can't be changed. But keep in mind that having one or more risk factors does not mean that a person will develop the disease.

Risk Factors for Pancreatic Cancer

Age: The risk of this cancer goes up with age. Almost all patients are older than 50 years.

Gender: Men have this cancer more often than women.

Race: African Americans are more likely to have this cancer than are whites.

Smoking: The risk of this cancer is higher among smokers. Heavy smoking increases the risk 2 to 3 times. About 3 out of 10 cases of pancreatic cancer are thought to be caused by smoking.

Diet: A diet high in meats and fat increases the risk of this cancer. Eating more fruits and vegetables appears to offer some protection. Being overweight might also increase the risk.

Diabetes: Pancreatic cancer is more common in people with this disease.

Chronic pancreatitis: This is a long-term inflammation of the pancreas. It is linked with a higher risk of pancreatic cancer in a small number of cases.

Work exposure: Certain chemicals used in the workplace may increase the risk of this cancer. People who often handle or breathe fumes from bug spray, dye, or gasoline products may have this risk.

Family history: Cancer of the pancreas seems to run in some families. Changes in DNA that increase the risk of this cancer also increase the risk for certain other cancers.

Stomach problems: Having too much stomach acid or having a bacteria called H. pylori in the stomach may increase the risk of pancreatic cancer.

Can Pancreatic Cancer Be Prevented?

There is no sure way to prevent cancer of the pancreas at this time. For now, the best advice is to avoid smoking and to eat a healthy diet with plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. Cut down on red meats, especially those that are processed or high in fat.

Revised: 01/01/2005

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I hope everything turns out ok.
I may be an asshole on here, but my best friend lost his mother to cancer...
it hurts, i know how you feel.
 
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