My mom and I just argued for two hours and now I feel stupid. What do I do?

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my mom and i have been literally screaming at each other for two hours. i have been crying the entire time. we were screaming really loud, and people walking by and my neighbors could probably hear us.

i was really really loud. we were yelling about high schools and how i want to transfer. and how i hate my current school.

we have concluded that i will probably stay at my current school and be miserable.

now i have a headache and i don't want to see any of my neighbors. and like, i don't think i'm being paranoid. a lot of people walk by my house. and my friends have told me before that they always hear my sister yelling.

soo how do i stop feeling embarrassed and like i want to kill myself? i'm still really mad at my mom because she doesn't how bad my current school is.
my mom told me i'm retarded and a dumb blonde. she is psycho. i approached her calmly, and she started screaming at me.

i want to transfer so i can go to a good college and not be a loser.
 
STOP BEING A SELFISH PUPPY AND GO SAY SORRY TO THAT GREAT WOMEN WHO BOUGHT YOU IN THIS WORLD. SHE DIDNT HAVE TO BRING YOU HERE OKAY. DONT DO THAT JUST GO TO GED CLASSES AND DROP OUT OF HIGHSCHOOL OKAY.
 
Stop the yelling and explain you situation in school, convince her you are not happy. You shouldn't want to kill yourself wou still have a long wonderful life ahead of you and trust me it will get better.
 
Well, I' speaking from experience here because my mom and I have had our fair share of loud fights. Obviously, the yelling does not work. Maybe you could both sit down and talk things out rationally and calmly.That way you could avoid having neighbors hear. Maybe you could get one of your close friends to try to reinforce your argument and convince her of how bad your school is.
Try to forget the fights and not be too ashamed. Every girl fights with their mom and usually the fights are really bad so its not as though you guys are abnormal in any way.
 
First off: there is ALWAYS someone in the world worse off than you.
I'm sure you don't want to kill yourself, you must be exaggerating.

Maybe I don't see the seriousness in your situation here. It must be horrific if you REALLY want to move.

Sleep it off, it works for me.

Sorry if I gave no help?
 
First off: there is ALWAYS someone in the world worse off than you.
I'm sure you don't want to kill yourself, you must be exaggerating.

Maybe I don't see the seriousness in your situation here. It must be horrific if you REALLY want to move.

Sleep it off, it works for me.

Sorry if I gave no help?
 
So what, you're friends think you're a robot with no emotions?

I don't think its that serious to feel embarassed by.
 
Maybe enjoy school? You shouldn't focus on how bad it is. Focus on how good things can be sometimes. Make it better for yourself by changing things and not waiting for them to change on their own
 
well saying ur gonna kill urself is a lil extreme...ive been in the same situation but kinda flip flopped...my mom wanted to transfer me cuz my school was horrible n i was having drama cuz crazy ppl in the school but i wanted to stay cuz my bf was there...we screamed n yelled n came to the conclusion that if i was gonna stay that i would havta get a ride to n from school..n i did...when it came down to it i made the wrong choice n this guy wasnt worth the drama of this school...but as for ur mom she should b more understanding to ur needs if its for the better of ur education...i kno what its like to b trapped in a school where no1 cares about their education all they care about is making ppl's lives miserable...i literally saw 3 or more fights everyday...it jus becomes distracting from ur education n ur mom should acknowledge that if she wants u to do well n succeed in ur education...maybe u should tell her that

as for being ambarrassed, get over it cuz every1 argues n has been in a yelling confrontation so who cares about their judgement
 
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