I am 22 weeks pregnant and i went to see my midwife about a month ago because i thought i was leaking some liquid.
She ws just suppose to take a swab... now these swabs are long, so its not like you have to spread to go up there. She was discusting and put her fingers in me and used the big tongs which she should ahve used the tiny ones. She also put the tongs way up there aswell. Then inserted her finger? Taking the tongs in and out, i had sex with one man so she shouldnt have used the bigs one on me anyway. It was painful, very painful and i told her repeatidly. I was shaking and almost crying.
I am 16 years old and this was my first pap smear. I asked my dr to do it but she told me to tell my midwife and she would take care of it.
She put the tongs so far back that i could feel her hitting my cervix.
Now i got over this incident and just moved on, and saw my dr 3 days later and they told me that i had a small yeast infection.
Now being a month later my midwife, (not anymore), phones me and tells me nothing was wrong, but when she looked at me she said i had a very very bad yeast infection. But she insisted the test said nothing.
So here i am 16 and i feel like i was just sexual assulted but with my own consent, even though i said it hurt and my legs where shaking. I just feel so grossed out and angry, anyone ever in this situation? How to deal?
She ws just suppose to take a swab... now these swabs are long, so its not like you have to spread to go up there. She was discusting and put her fingers in me and used the big tongs which she should ahve used the tiny ones. She also put the tongs way up there aswell. Then inserted her finger? Taking the tongs in and out, i had sex with one man so she shouldnt have used the bigs one on me anyway. It was painful, very painful and i told her repeatidly. I was shaking and almost crying.
I am 16 years old and this was my first pap smear. I asked my dr to do it but she told me to tell my midwife and she would take care of it.
She put the tongs so far back that i could feel her hitting my cervix.
Now i got over this incident and just moved on, and saw my dr 3 days later and they told me that i had a small yeast infection.
Now being a month later my midwife, (not anymore), phones me and tells me nothing was wrong, but when she looked at me she said i had a very very bad yeast infection. But she insisted the test said nothing.
So here i am 16 and i feel like i was just sexual assulted but with my own consent, even though i said it hurt and my legs where shaking. I just feel so grossed out and angry, anyone ever in this situation? How to deal?