my husband keeps arguing back with me when im pregnant?

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im 13 weeks pregnant and my husband cant seem to understand that pregnant women have mood swings and he is arguing back all though iv told him time after time just ignore me when im ''in one'' this is obviously bad for my baby its getting to me now because my moods are quite bad and i am being a bitch but cant help it...any advice if in im right or wrong here would be a great help
 
Personally, I think you're using being pregnant as a cop out. While being pregnant may make your hormonal, you can still do your best to be nice to him.
 
It's hard for your husband to live with your moods, but he needs to understand, that whatever he is going through, you are going through a hundred times worse!

He needs to keep in mind that stress is VERY bad for a baby! If he could learn to walk away, it'll only be for another 7 months, and your baby (and you) will reap the benefits.

Good luck honey, and stay calm;-)
 
ohhhh.....im 25 weeks along and let me tell you what..I FEEL YOUR PAIN! This is our first baby together soo I dont think he really realizes exactly what im going through. Emotions are running wild...but a man will never understand what we mean by that. I just want him to sit back and tell me everything is going to be fine and comfort me when im angry...but hey...thats life...cant always be peaches and cream. Anymore..when we fight...its hard..but I try not to speak or see him for atleast a day...let both of us cool off...its alot less stressful that way...goodluck to you
 
Apparently you can't understand that men tend to have the mood swings just as bad as the women. lol

Its hard for a man to sit there and ignore his wife when she's upset or saying hurtful things. I've been pregnant 3 times and completely understand about the hormones, but you can't 100% blame them. You DO have control over the way you speak to your husband. Perhaps you should try just a little harder to watch what you say. If you feel yourself getting upset or frustrated with something, just warn your husband and leave the room. Count to 10 or take a warm shower or whatever you need to do to calm down. I found that going for walks was enough to clear my head and be able to speak to my husband in a calm and loving manner about whatever it was that was frustrating me (or just drop it all together). My husband and I both had an agreement that if I walked out the door, he was to leave me alone so that I could clear my head. It was better than standing there arguing. I'd always take my cell phone with me though in case of an emergency. lol
 
exercise often... walk everyday or go to the gym for some Pilate's or yoga!! This is help your stress levels... and also give you a place to let your stress out...AND ITS SUPER GOOD FOR MOMMA AND BABY.
 
you are smart to know about how your mood affects your baby and it is important to hav e happy emotions as much as poissible becasue the baby will create these unhappy emotions when it is born and will be a grumpy nasty person.

If you are happy you will get a happy baby see?

Show this to your husband and remind him of his vows to take you in sickness and in health.
 
Just go back to basics - when you and your husband begin an argument, tell him that you need to go into the other room to take a break and calm down. Breathe deeply and remind yourself that you're extra hormonal. After a few minutes you may be able to replay the argument in your mind and go through it, step-by-step, to consider it RATIONALLY.

When you're all cooled down, regroup. If you feel the discussion is absolutely mandatory, go about it in as logical a way you can.
 
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