smartypants
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I'm going crazy due to lack of sleep and emotional pain.
My husband drinks beer & gets high every single night all night. He usually works late in the night then comes home and just sits at the computer drinking & smoking pot all night. I have expressed to him my disgust with this behavior, but he doesn't stop so I told him I prefer to we sleep separate... although we don't sleep together anyway, he is up to about 630AM getting drunk & high.
Anyway... most nights he drinks, at some point usually between 3:30 - 5:30AM he will come and verbally attack me. Either he will nudge my shoulder, or nudge my feet to wake up and stand at the end of the bed and then once I open my eyes he will stand there in a drunken stooper verbally attacking me, saying "I'm a piece of shit, full of shit, bitch, etc."
I ask him to leave me alone, actually I get to the point of begging but he doesn't listen and just keeps telling me crap to start a fight. I get to the point of screaming "please please please just leave me alone! please!" and usually he will ignore all my requests, and just continue to talk trash to me.
I am going crazy... I can't live like this... I can't even get a full nights sleep, almost every night he tries to pick a fight with me.
what do I do?
no kids.. but I do have a dog and a bird.
But no family in the area... they are a state away.
Yes, there is more going on. I tell him that his drinking/pot use is a problem because this is all he does all night, then he just sleeps all day, and also because doing so takes away from our relationship. I told him we can't even have sex because he's always drunk or high.
When I tell him this.... he says... "no, your just being drama. I don't have any problems with alcohol. Stop trying to make drama about me. Your just making problems."
My husband drinks beer & gets high every single night all night. He usually works late in the night then comes home and just sits at the computer drinking & smoking pot all night. I have expressed to him my disgust with this behavior, but he doesn't stop so I told him I prefer to we sleep separate... although we don't sleep together anyway, he is up to about 630AM getting drunk & high.
Anyway... most nights he drinks, at some point usually between 3:30 - 5:30AM he will come and verbally attack me. Either he will nudge my shoulder, or nudge my feet to wake up and stand at the end of the bed and then once I open my eyes he will stand there in a drunken stooper verbally attacking me, saying "I'm a piece of shit, full of shit, bitch, etc."
I ask him to leave me alone, actually I get to the point of begging but he doesn't listen and just keeps telling me crap to start a fight. I get to the point of screaming "please please please just leave me alone! please!" and usually he will ignore all my requests, and just continue to talk trash to me.
I am going crazy... I can't live like this... I can't even get a full nights sleep, almost every night he tries to pick a fight with me.
what do I do?
no kids.. but I do have a dog and a bird.
But no family in the area... they are a state away.
Yes, there is more going on. I tell him that his drinking/pot use is a problem because this is all he does all night, then he just sleeps all day, and also because doing so takes away from our relationship. I told him we can't even have sex because he's always drunk or high.
When I tell him this.... he says... "no, your just being drama. I don't have any problems with alcohol. Stop trying to make drama about me. Your just making problems."