My husband is always complaining....?

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tracy

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My husband is always complaining about not getting enough sex, and just the other day he said I have to get divorced to get some. We've been married for six years now.

I am having period problems, one every 2 weeks that last around 14 days, and he won't have sex while on my period first of all.

Second of all, it's him, not me...I'm always ready and willing. He works a lot of hours and has to get up really early for work, and I am a stay at home mom that stays up late and sleeps in. I couldn't even go to bed when he does because the kids are still up. So we usually only have sex on the weekends, when I'm not on my period, 3 sometimes 4 times in a weekend. When we do it is GREAT. (I'm also going to be going to the doctor soon to let them know of this problem I'm having).
Why would he say things like that, after I tell him that it's not my fault its his and he knows that?
Ooops big error. I am NOT WHITE TRASH...THANK YOU VERY MUCH....
First of all...I would like to say that my kids don't stay up late at all. They are in bed since it is summer by 10:30 at the latest. My husband is in bed by around 8.

I would also like to add that I am white trash thank you very much and am a junior attending college to receive my bachelors degree in accounting.
 
He shouldn't complain he is getting more sex then most husbands who come on here and b*tch about their non-existent sex lives and you should tell him that.
 
good grief! remind him that statistically, he gets it way more often than most married couples!
 
my guess would be... that ur husband may be scared that ur losing a connection..one that comes from sex. he may be scared ur drifting apart , or that ur not sexually attracted to him anymore...what he said may have been a joke, just to u ..not very funny and i can completely see why..



Maybe what u could do is plan a weekend away with him...call a baby sittin or ur parents and leave ur kids with them an go to a hotel or stay home an just have a very romantic weekend..


u may not be connecting on an emotional level because of work an kids, try having a date night once a week , that can vamp up ur relationship


try giving body rubs, snuggling when u cant have sex, get close to each other have the stimulation without..penetration?



when u cant have sex with ur husband try to please him other ways lol its worth it if he shuts up..right? ::)



GOOD LUCK
 
Tell him that you don't appreciate the comment. Ask him not to disrespect you like that.
When he makes that comment again, say,
'lets go make love, now." If he chooses not too, say, "Guess I have to get divorced to get some."
That'll lern him. lol.
Or maybe you 2 can make love b4 he goes to work, or maybe b4 he goes to bed.
Good luck! =+)
 
First, go to the doctor. It sounds like you may have a fibroid problem. Second, it just his frustration talking, no one is to blame. If anything he would take more of an initiative to get 'some' when he can. I work nights and my husband works days, on my off days he wakes me up before he goes to work and puts me back to sleep. ;~} If anything he may get a little greedy, you know how they say you can never have too much of a good thing.... And another thing is to try to come up with some other ways to pacify him while you going through your thang, that's usually what it's all about anyway.... Good luck.
 
He's a jerk for making it seem like its your fault when clearly you cant control your period problems. Tell him if he can walk through mud then he can f*ck through blood...no biggie, lol!!!
 
OK your first mistake was in blaming him. It is not his fault, all he is doing is trying to bring home enough money to support you and the kids. Would you rather be on welfare and have a dead beat husband? I didn't think so. Now first of all you should apologize for telling him that it is his fault. Saying things like that is going to make him feel like he is being a bad husband. Second, there is something you need to understand about men. Men really truly do NEED to have sex. Why? Because that is how a man expresses his love for his wife, that is how a man can feel close and connected to his wife. The same feelings that you get when he holds you and kisses you and tells you how much he loves you and how beautiful you are, are the same feelings he gets from sex. Now, you say that you stay up late and sleep in... I am sorry honey but it sounds like you need to take one for the team and change your schedule. Why are your children staying up late? kids need to be in bed by 9pm at the latest. I went to bed at 8pm until I was in middle school, then I could say up until 9 and it stayed that way until I was in highschool when I had to go to bed at 10:30. You need to change the kids schedule and yours to make some time for you and hubby. If he is tired at night, then you need to get up early with him in the morning and give him some nookie before work. You also need to get that period thing checked out cause that's not normal, however a lot of this problem is you not making him the priority like he should be, not your health problem or the kids. Get them to bed early and go have sex with your husband.
 
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