My husband in military commit adultery?

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things have got out of hand really now. I have pictures my husband has been having an affair while we were still married and not legal separated or divorce as i do not receive any paper like he said he is divorcing me. Should i report to his commander that he is having an ffair and sent those photo's??
hey adish, what do i got to lose anyway?i don;t even get child support and my husband just left us without as single cents, pretty much abandoning us and so if he lost his job etc.. what do i got to lose?? i am losing anyway..
 
NO.

Once you do that, the "genie is out of the bottle" and you can't take that back. I'm pretty sure you don't know what will happen next, you probably expect he'll get a "stern talking-to" and be required to stop the affair and make up with you, or actually get a divorce. It's possible that he might wind up in prison, depending on his rank, or thrown out of the military, or lose his Security Clearance which might end his career depending on what his job/rank is.

My point is that you do not know what will happen if you do that, and it's more likely than not to cause a bad result for yourself.

What you need to do is consult a lawyer. Discuss what result you DO want, and options of how you get there. It's possible that the pictures play a part in that, but it's more likely that they go into a court case as Evidence than a plain brown envelope as a Tool of Revenge.

THINK.
 
NO.

Once you do that, the "genie is out of the bottle" and you can't take that back. I'm pretty sure you don't know what will happen next, you probably expect he'll get a "stern talking-to" and be required to stop the affair and make up with you, or actually get a divorce. It's possible that he might wind up in prison, depending on his rank, or thrown out of the military, or lose his Security Clearance which might end his career depending on what his job/rank is.

My point is that you do not know what will happen if you do that, and it's more likely than not to cause a bad result for yourself.

What you need to do is consult a lawyer. Discuss what result you DO want, and options of how you get there. It's possible that the pictures play a part in that, but it's more likely that they go into a court case as Evidence than a plain brown envelope as a Tool of Revenge.

THINK.
 
NO.

Once you do that, the "genie is out of the bottle" and you can't take that back. I'm pretty sure you don't know what will happen next, you probably expect he'll get a "stern talking-to" and be required to stop the affair and make up with you, or actually get a divorce. It's possible that he might wind up in prison, depending on his rank, or thrown out of the military, or lose his Security Clearance which might end his career depending on what his job/rank is.

My point is that you do not know what will happen if you do that, and it's more likely than not to cause a bad result for yourself.

What you need to do is consult a lawyer. Discuss what result you DO want, and options of how you get there. It's possible that the pictures play a part in that, but it's more likely that they go into a court case as Evidence than a plain brown envelope as a Tool of Revenge.

THINK.
 
I know you're feeling cut and pissed off at the moment. But how would this benefit you at all? Taking revenge like that won't make you feel satisfied or happy again.

I know it sucks big balls, and I know you're hurting right now but you need to move on and find a better man.
 
I know you're feeling cut and pissed off at the moment. But how would this benefit you at all? Taking revenge like that won't make you feel satisfied or happy again.

I know it sucks big balls, and I know you're hurting right now but you need to move on and find a better man.
 
I know you're feeling cut and pissed off at the moment. But how would this benefit you at all? Taking revenge like that won't make you feel satisfied or happy again.

I know it sucks big balls, and I know you're hurting right now but you need to move on and find a better man.
 
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