....and during their mediation his ex wife said she doesn't want them seeing me (the Stepmom). She accused me of emotional abuse and said that I sent her daughter a mean text message. In reality the only abuse is from her by parental alienating and denying visitation. I am pregnant and she told the mediator she doesnt care if my child is part of their (my stepdaughters life). Will a mediator and a judge see that she is just bitter and jealous or can they keep a stepmom out of the picture completely?