My husband has been in the army for over a year. He used to call a couple times a day...

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pinkfirefly13

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...now he barely does at al? Last time he came home on leave he ignored me the whole time. He said its weird to be around me after not seeing me for long. He has been home several times this year though. Every time I bring up divorce he flips out. What gives? Im sick of feeling like I don't exist. Am I wrong or am I just not seeing the "truth". Should I give up? He says things will change when he comes home for good.
He hasn't even been overseas. Hes waiting to get out cause he has arthritis.
thanks everyone. He keeps telling me I am crazy when I get mad about it.
actually a medical discharge can take years depending on what it is and we have been married for 5 years, bitchy old cynic.
 
There is something hes finding hard to deal with in the military and cant confide or relate to you...and spending so much time away from home and with influencial men who can convince him having a wife is not gona help his ability to have fun with the single guys who go out for women will affect his ability to fit in... hes under pressure..and being a solider too is very tough work...if you cant get him to talk..maybe you need to ask him what he wants..if he cant decide then you need to for the both of you..
 
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