Hi, My husband and I have three wonderful little ones, but evertime that I gave brith something would go wrong(alot more bleeding that there should have been) But I still want one more little one. I told my husband that too, But My Mom and him thought that it would be for the best if he had a vasectomy done. I told him that I didnt want it but he still went and did it. It has been 7 weeks since he had is dont and we have had sex maybe 5 or 6 times, cause I just dont want to anymore. I know that it sounds sad but I am so happy when I am pregnant, and I love my babys so much! I just dont feel happy anymore and I have told my husband why and he tells me that its going to be ok. Please help me I dont want this to stop us for having a loving marrage.
I never said that I dont love my kids or do anything with them, I have one in perschool and going into dance because that it was she wants, My 3 year old is going into dance after christmas and my 4 month old he is just the best baby ever...Its not just that it makes me happy but I feel so buatiful(I know I did not spell that right) And we do have money, there is no problem there, I just feel lost and I know that it is his body, But I know alot of guys that get it done and then they are out cheating, Not trying to sound bad or anything Im just really worried. I dont know maybe Im going threw a mid life thing or something, Sorry just thought that I would ask
Dena, Thank You very much, It is so nice to have someone care and not think that I am a bad person, I just feel like no one cares and that I sound so dumb, I dont want to have anything happen to my marrage because of this, and I am trying so hard not to. I do love him and my kids with all my hart and I would do anything for them
I never said that I dont love my kids or do anything with them, I have one in perschool and going into dance because that it was she wants, My 3 year old is going into dance after christmas and my 4 month old he is just the best baby ever...Its not just that it makes me happy but I feel so buatiful(I know I did not spell that right) And we do have money, there is no problem there, I just feel lost and I know that it is his body, But I know alot of guys that get it done and then they are out cheating, Not trying to sound bad or anything Im just really worried. I dont know maybe Im going threw a mid life thing or something, Sorry just thought that I would ask
Dena, Thank You very much, It is so nice to have someone care and not think that I am a bad person, I just feel like no one cares and that I sound so dumb, I dont want to have anything happen to my marrage because of this, and I am trying so hard not to. I do love him and my kids with all my hart and I would do anything for them