My husband doesn't care about sexy lingerie he says he likes just naked,is he weird or?

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Peaches

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Men do you feel the same way or Women do your husbands feel the same way OR is my husband weird or cheap maybe he doesn't want to spend the money on something that doesn't stay on very long. What do you think?
I'm finding out that Men are very simple, We women make things more complicated. I'm a simple person and he loves me that way. I guess, I thought I had to make more of an effort but I'm finding out that I don't have to. That's fine with me
 
My bf likes me the way I am. I think that your guy is proving that as well. My man always tells me that he thinks I'm sexxi alone and I don't need anything fancy. He's fine with me just wearing jeans and a tee.
 
I love it, when a WOMAN puts an effort into lovemaking. You'll be surprise of the spouses out there, that never put an effort into lovemaking and that really sucks to me!!!
Take that long hot shower, with baby skin moisturizers, clean out throughtly. Use dental floss, brush your teeth, rinse with mouth wash, chew a nice cimmimon gum. Serve some sparkling white champange or wine or an ice down super cold beer. Wear that sexy thong or nice panty. Turn on some candles, throw some rose peddles on bed mattress.
There is nothing more beautiful than a wife naked, ready and in the extreme mood to make intense love for a very long time and sucking each others souls out.
Putting that EFFORT and making PREPARATIONS is very important.
 
My bf likes me the way I am. I think that your guy is proving that as well. My man always tells me that he thinks I'm sexxi alone and I don't need anything fancy. He's fine with me just wearing jeans and a tee.
 
If Love is Blind, then why is the lingerie business doing so well?

Kidding aside, I always thought that sexy lingerie is foolish and infantile.

As Jeff Foxworthy says that all it takes is a beer and something naked to satisfy a man
 
I am fine with nude too! Nothing beats coming to bed and reaching over to kiss my wife good night to find her "naked and waiting"! ! ! WOW I LOVE that!

As for the lingerie? I think it is cool when my wife and I go out somewhere nice she puts on her sexy bra and panties and it gets me going knowing what is under her clothing. So I am all for sexy bra and panties. BUT to be at home and my wife to say "wait for 3 minutes while I put on lingerie" no thanks I would rather spend 30 seconds taking off whatever she has on instead of waiting 3 minutes for her to change so I can spend 30 seconds taking the lingerie off! ! !

So I am kind of similar to your hubby too!
 
No he's not cheap he's a lazy lover. He doesn't want to do the work to unwrap the package. Like a child the anticipation is more than he can stand he'd rather just get it done with.

Try wearing something that he would least expect if you normally where pastel silks & satins then try some leather and lace. Plan your seduction of him and he will soon come to appreciate the anticipation.

Handcuff him, blind fold him, massage him...
when you finally unblindfold him and he sees what you are wearing just the thought of that outfit will remind him of what he might expect.

The pitfall of being married is that our guys pretty much know we're a sure thing if we are in the mood so they don't put in the same kind of effort unless we give them that incentive.
 
I am fine with nude too! Nothing beats coming to bed and reaching over to kiss my wife good night to find her "naked and waiting"! ! ! WOW I LOVE that!

As for the lingerie? I think it is cool when my wife and I go out somewhere nice she puts on her sexy bra and panties and it gets me going knowing what is under her clothing. So I am all for sexy bra and panties. BUT to be at home and my wife to say "wait for 3 minutes while I put on lingerie" no thanks I would rather spend 30 seconds taking off whatever she has on instead of waiting 3 minutes for her to change so I can spend 30 seconds taking the lingerie off! ! !

So I am kind of similar to your hubby too!
 
It's a coin toss.

Most lingerie, isn't made for men or what they like, it's designed for women to feel sexy in.

Wear what you want, feel sexy....you have the advantage of him not demanding what you wear. Enjoy yourself.

As for him, he likes what he likes...YOU
 
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