my husband and I haven't yet had sex?

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Halo

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we have been married 5 month I'm 22 he's 25. We have been together 2 years and I don't want to have sex because it's against my morals but my husband wants it. I don't want sex but I want a baby but without the sex of course. My husband keeps on complaining what should I do?
 
Sex between spouses is beautiful and it's not wrong. Are you afraid sex will be painful? Having a baby will be a lot more painful than having sex.
 
I do not see the problem exactly because u are married and in the christian religion you technically shouldnt have sex till your married which you are now. Ofcourse if i was him i woul dbe complaining too because sex is a natural part of life and you dont want to embrace that. I do not think it necessarily goes against morals your just to embarassed or scared to go for it. Your 22 your at that age where you should have been experimenting sexually. If you do not share a sexual relationship together do you think that will encourage your husband to stay with you??? Number one reasons why relationships shatter is Money and Sex so you honestly should decide if you want that to happen to you
 
I am sorry but I don't believe you. I would believe you if you weren't from this planet. I think you just want attention in here and a bunch of answers. Good luck with that because you gonna need it since not all people are stupid.
 
I see nothing wrong with having sex, he is your husband and there is nothing morally wrong about it. Maybe you are afraid of what it may feel like or if you two may not be sexually compatible, but you will never know until you try it.
 
Question is,What should he do?. Are you kidding marriage,sex, they go hand in hand. you are lucky that he is still around.
 
if you do not want to have sex, then you should not be with anyone. I
don't think there is any man out there that does not want to have sex.
You are on your own. sorry
 
Become a nun,. YOu are punishing your husbandman and you are CLEARLY NEVER marriage material. What a joke you have played ION that man! What Dodi you think marriage was, just cooking and cleaning? Grow upo and divorce him on grounds you will Noot give him sex....
 
Your married you love each other, you have good morals but no sex at all isn't good for a relationship trust me it will cause trouble in your marriage maybe your not ready yet explain this to your husband & if you want a child think of adopting or asking someone to be a surrogate.
 
how is this out of your morals.
mine are no sex until marrage.
your married. right. so love with your husband.


and you want a child without sex then im guessing adoption
but you better hope he is a great guy because sex is something you both need in a relationship
 
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