My husband and I have been discussing separation?

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We have been together for a long time-but because of certain complicated issues we are unable to live together anymore.
He then decided to tell members of his family-I agreed for him to tell only one,but he said if I tell one I have to tell others.
There are certain members of his family that I don't speak to -and I really don't want them knowing my personal business.
Do you think he was right telling all and sundry !
 
If his family are anything like most if he had not told them they would have told each other anyway and at least this way they get it straight from the horses mouth so to speak.

If you are separating then this is also his personal business and if he wants to share this with his family it really should not concern you. Maybe he needed to talk it through and his family seem the obviously people. I certainly use my family to talk through problems and worries with. I certainly don't consider my family all and sundry.
 
When he told everyone he was probably looking for some kind of support. It doesn't seem that it was against your wishes though. I can understand where you are coming from though.
 
There's no rules in love or war>Sorry for your sadness been there and it will only get worse> Keep smiling and hope you work this out this is the time for friends that will support you not talk about you>
 
When he told everyone he was probably looking for some kind of support. It doesn't seem that it was against your wishes though. I can understand where you are coming from though.
 
Even if he did only tell 1 person in his family it would still get out eventually to the rest of his family that you and him have separated.
 
No not really, and it was probably done in anger. Same happened to me - we are more or less back together now but I'm dreading things like Mothers Day as his family are terribly anti me now.
 
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