His ex cheated on him multiple times and now he has this wall up. Everything is a big effort and its taking a lot of time to get to the milestones I had with my exes. Should I be the one to tell him exactly how I feel. I have been a bit reserved as well since I dont wanna put it all out there and find out he doesnt feel that way. Ive been waiting for him to make the moves. Any advice? Should I just put it out there and see what happens?