My girlfriend whines about being abused as a child *yawn*?

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Dean

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You get a beating and then you get over it. Why b%tch and whining about it years later?

She, her sisters and mother were hit by her father all the time. Okay that's very sad, but maybe she should have avoided him when he was drunk. And why does she have to tell me about it? Its not my fault that her family didn't love her. She said I was insensitive and I'd be as messed up if I went through the same. Well I didn't! My dad loves me and the only time he ever hit me, he took me on vacation to New York to apologize.

How do I get her to get over it? It was years ago!
 
You can't judge her if you haven't had it happen , even of you think how it feels you still don't know that shit ain't easy. Yes she should stop winning, because it's not gonna change anything . But maybe SHE not sad her dad spank her she wants you're attention and feels you're insensitive and she's using this as an excuse for you to show her love. By the way you talk to her you sound like you don't give a crap about her calling her a bitch or you are ghetto sorry don't mean to offend. I think you should listen to her give her love and if eventually she doesn't stop winning then tell her to change or ignore her. Goodluck
 
Try to show some sympathy.
Clearly you never lived with an abusive alcoholic parent, or you would be able to show some sensitivity to this.

Yes I agree with her, you ARE insensitive

You won't GET her to get over it, but if you found a bit of sensitivity, you might stand a chance of HELPING her to get over it.
 
It might take her time to resolve her issues. If you can not be there for her, your NOT the one for her and you need to be responsible and tell her honestly how you feel. Maybe, you guys are not paired up right.
 
haha. just remember, KARMA IS A BITCH. Someday, dear boy, you're going to end up with no one, every person you have in your life will leave you because you're such a dick and no one will want to put up with your arrogant, insensitive attitude. Your boss will never be able to handle your awful disposition either, so you'll often get fired and not be able to sustain a job, losing everything in your life. You'll end up being a horrible fucking drunk with no place to live and no money. You'll resort to a life of crime, and end up in prison, where you'll get raped in the ass multiple times a day. Then, when you get out, if you ever do, you'll be expected to just get over it because no one will fucking care about pathetic little you.
 
K first off coming from a girl stand point u need to be a little sensitive when it comes to this. I was abused as a child by my father and was sexually and physically abused by a boyfriend two years ago. My boyfriend now has been with me for a year and he was frustrated like you are because every time he got mad i curled up in a ball. I don't know the extent of her abuse but my ex put me in the hospital in critical condition and almost made me brain dead. I would sit down and talk to her, for me I still have problems with it but I try and hide it from my boyfriend cuz I know it hurts him when he has to hear about me getting hurt. It took me talking to my boyfriend and hearing him say, "its not going to happen to you again, I'm not going to let it happen to you again, but we need to be able to figure something out to help you through this." and you know what he told me to stop thinking about it and stop comparing everything to it because he was my new life. Just try and be a little more sensitive cuz i know the frustration a situation like this can cause from your point and hers.
 
Abuse is not something you just "get over". She may need counseling. And maybe she just wants you to understand her better. Sounds to me like she is right. Insensitive!
 
Do your girlfriend a favor. Go get a beating from HER father and then you will see how she feels. :) She tells you because she trusts you but a turd is more caring than you. Jerk off.
 
You dont understand the reproductions of what something like this can have over people. Its a horrible situation I'm sure, its not as if a little one can just avoid a parent. Have some compassion and empathy. I think the least you could do is break up with her, for her sake, you are not the kind of person any women should be with. Your a pom pas jerk!
 
You're a troll. I've read your previous questions.

Obviously break up with your girlfriend because she obviously needs someone that cares about her.
 
You're a troll. I've read your previous questions.

Obviously break up with your girlfriend because she obviously needs someone that cares about her.
 
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