My girlfriend likes to argue and I don't, how do I deal?

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My girlfriend likes to really hash things out and go for it whereas I prefer to just talk things over, clarifying things in a calm, tranquil way. But when I really know I'm right, I'll just wait til the consequence occurs and say I told you so.

Rather than being the ultimate proof that I was right, this makes it worse. What should I do if I can't just speak the problem over?
 
Most of the men don't know how to deal the situation n just end up with breaking. But most of the woman are like such, all men need to put some more efforts to understand them. keeping quiet is best solution for the time being, let her finish with her points, then you can say that this is the way you think but let's see the situation from various other point of view and then you can present your logic. Tell her that you might be right but there is no harm in accepting anothers' point of view.
 
I would play it her way, play ball! And once the fight is over.. You can go back to being rational and smooth things over. And maybe have some sweet make-up sex!
 
I would play it her way, play ball! And once the fight is over.. You can go back to being rational and smooth things over. And maybe have some sweet make-up sex!
 
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