My Girlfriend just tured down sex with me Please help!?

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Jay

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OK SO WHERE TEENS we are both madly in love we both know it and its perfect shes NOT a virgin i AM we have became close to doing it many times but today we where in bed with only bottom under wear i ask her if she wanted to do it she thaught for a while and said no se we carried on no problem
it was defo becuase shes scared of getting pergnant she said it
IM FEELING SO BAD RIGHT NOW I DONT KNOW WHY

ive had loads of chances to lost my virginaty with loads of girls but didnt becuase waiting for the perfect girl she is it and i was so sure that that was it today but no:(
please give ME TIPS ON WHAT TO DO AND HOW LONG DO YOU THINK SHE WILL NEED

OHH YEH WE WHERE ALWAYS PLANNING ON USEING A CONDOM
 
Dude, how old are you?
Just wait until she's ready. It's not a shame to be a virgin as a teen. :P
 
maybe she needs some more reassurance about not getting pregnant, if you are in a good stable relationship you could suggest some other contraceptives e.g the implanon or pill maybe. but if you're this worked up about it, maybe you're not ready, just wait till the time comes, dont throw it away.
 
SHE'S SMART, RESPECT THAT...AND STOP YELLING AT US!!

Dude, teens have NO business having sex. Condoms fail, birth control pills and other methods can all fail. Unless you have money in the bank (and her) to pay her medical bills if she got pregnant and had a kid...and could afford to support said kid, then keep your willy in your pants.

It doesn't matter how many chances you've had to screw other chicks...it matters that you are responsible in your sexual activity and able to handle ANY possible consequences. If you can't handle pregnancy or STD treatment without having Mom & Dad foot the bill (or their insurance) or having to apply for gov't help, then you've no business having sex. It's just that simple.

Your girlfriend is smart...she's got more to risk than you do. SHE is the one risking pregnancy when she has sex...not you.
 
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