My girlfriend and I have been together for almost five months, and she doesn't want sex. The closest we've ever gotten to intercourse is passionate kissing--she flips out when I take off my shirt or try to unbutton hers. Of course I would NEVER force and haven't tried to. It's just that like every other guy on the planet, I really want sex! And she's hot and sweet and smart, I want it with her. I love her. But it's like she gets scared when I try to talk her into it, and I don't feel like I'm intimidating her... Why doesn't she want it??? She told me she was verbally/emotionally abused growing up, but that shouldn't impact her sex life, right? What could be the problem??
*We're both in our early 20's by the way, and have graduated from college, work in same building...
I can wait... I just wonder WHY! She won't answer me. She doesn't say "I'm not ready" or anything... She just flat-out won't talk about it.
*We're both in our early 20's by the way, and have graduated from college, work in same building...
I can wait... I just wonder WHY! She won't answer me. She doesn't say "I'm not ready" or anything... She just flat-out won't talk about it.