My girlfriend is afraid of sex iv discovered. What should i do?

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So i made several attempts at having sex with my girlfriend of 3 months which were stopped. It was the right mood and she was very into the stuff we were doing. But when i asked her about it she almost started crying. She says it will never happen in this relationship and my advances seemed to have stopped her from being able to love me. im not sure what to make of all of this. she also says that she doesnt love me but she cares sooo much about me and i mean the world to her but she says that one day she could love me.. so im totally confused. im her first boyfriend if that helps. im 19 years old and she is 18.
im perfectly fine with no sex. i love this girl to death but its terrible to say when she cant say it back to me. we have the most romantic time together and she tells me all about it but idk will she ever be able to say it to me? i dont mistreat her and i compliment her at the appropriate times and often. i dont get what im doing wrong if anything
 
She doesn't love you? Then how are you her bf?
Normally, I would say you shouldn't push her, and just respect her decision of not having sex. But if she doesn't even love you than how on earth do you mean the world to her? Have a serious talk with this girl, and find out what she really wants. She might just be using you because she's attached to you. Otherwise this is so not a bf/gf relationship.
 
it seems like she is very confused. if i were you i wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to be with me no matter how much you want them. however, if you feel like you two have a special connection and you want to wait for her to make up her mind then just give her time. don't pressure her. if nothing changes then i would say you need to move on.
 
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