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Jt_787
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I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now. At first she as always lovey dovey, always sending me emails and being a sweetheart. Then like any other couple we got into arguements, and now things are on the rocky side. We have an arguement maybe once a week, but i wouldn't say its my fault.
She's just changing ever so much. The way she responds when I speak to her is always cold, or in one word "yes" "no" "uha". She wasn't like that before.
And she changes topics alot when i talk. I find it rude and I tell her off sometimes. She hardly ever tells me she misses me. Her tone has completely changed. Even when she greets me. Before she would say hello "darling" or "my love" now it's like hello.. or hey.
I dunno all these small things hurt me and whenever i try to express my feelings to her she gets defensive, saying that i think i love her more than she does? and as if i sound crazy to her.
and yes we are doing long-distance so it's harder than ever! I'll see her next month (if we manage to get thru)
but what do you think is wrong with her? maybe all the arguements have gotten to her in the past? does she seem like shes dis-interested?
do all women have this rough patch?
p.s the things we've argued over.
Her ex boyfriend talking to her a lot and constantly writing on her facebook wall. I dont know how often they speak but it bothered me a lot.
And she told me that she hated her sister's boyfriend, and she wanted them to break up because he wasnt good enough for her. Then she told her sisters boyfriend told her he liked her. And then i got angry and spoke to her sister about this.
It turned into a huge arguement over the summer. It turns out though that my gf was sending all these lovely emails to him like, oh i miss you and i love you bla bla. even though she said she hated him. but she said she never meant it that way.
but anyway i forgave her and I moved on. but ever since then we kept having arguements.
She's just changing ever so much. The way she responds when I speak to her is always cold, or in one word "yes" "no" "uha". She wasn't like that before.
And she changes topics alot when i talk. I find it rude and I tell her off sometimes. She hardly ever tells me she misses me. Her tone has completely changed. Even when she greets me. Before she would say hello "darling" or "my love" now it's like hello.. or hey.
I dunno all these small things hurt me and whenever i try to express my feelings to her she gets defensive, saying that i think i love her more than she does? and as if i sound crazy to her.
and yes we are doing long-distance so it's harder than ever! I'll see her next month (if we manage to get thru)
but what do you think is wrong with her? maybe all the arguements have gotten to her in the past? does she seem like shes dis-interested?
do all women have this rough patch?
p.s the things we've argued over.
Her ex boyfriend talking to her a lot and constantly writing on her facebook wall. I dont know how often they speak but it bothered me a lot.
And she told me that she hated her sister's boyfriend, and she wanted them to break up because he wasnt good enough for her. Then she told her sisters boyfriend told her he liked her. And then i got angry and spoke to her sister about this.
It turned into a huge arguement over the summer. It turns out though that my gf was sending all these lovely emails to him like, oh i miss you and i love you bla bla. even though she said she hated him. but she said she never meant it that way.
but anyway i forgave her and I moved on. but ever since then we kept having arguements.