My girlfriend has this guy friend who she has know your years he's they had sex

[cosmicblossoms]

& he's married and not happy? Ok we have been together about 2 1/2 years on and off. her friend is always calling having dinner together hanging out at her place. Now when ever he's there she won't take any of my calls or if she is out with him she even left my place to go have dinner with him and I had to stay home. When ever he's around I can't be I hear his name almost every day. Now when she leaves town he has her house keys comes over checks on her cat stays the night sleep on the same bed as we do user's her car.I could keep going but what's the point. This past labor say weekend her girlfriend who I met for the first time on friday and the three of us went out had a nice time. The next morning the two of them were going to do some shopping and eat well after I left guess who show up so they do there thing gone until almost 5 we had plans to see a show in the park the problem was I didn't know where the place was not far you could walk to it from her place. her friend was going to drop them off there now remember I don't know were to go I call no answer now its almost 5 she start shouting at me from across the street al pissed off saying very mean things to me in front of her friend she get out of my truck and tells me you need to find somewhere to park and walks off right after the show she start it again so I leave again in front of her friend the next morning the two of them were going to a spa well i never spoke to her until monday I asked her what's up did he go to I still haven't got a answer and then now her friend is gone Labor Day can't reach her so I drive to her place and guess who's there she won't answer the phone nothing so I leave her a message saying this is bull shit and I'm tired of it told her make a choice haven't spoke to her since. tell me am I the one who's wrong who does this If I did anything close to this you would think I killed someone .

 

[mathias_akira]

you gotta trust your girl if you love her she will do right by you

also if you push her friend away or try to get rid of them it will will only strain your relationship

just trust her and everything should work out

 

[Nikki s]

I'm finding it very hard to read, especially towards the end.

The gist I got is that your girls best friend is a guy and that makes you jealous, you've obviously shown that your jealous and she is therefore angry with you because it seems that you don't trust her.

Grow up. My best friend is a bloke and if men can't accept that then they can get lost. I once had a very jealous ex who tried to 'break up' the friendship and who complained about it constantly, it's none of his business as it isn't yours in her case.

Why should she call you? Or answer your calls? She may have left her phone somewhere, or she's annoyed because you seem to be trying to check up on her. Why bother calling if you know she's with friends? You wouldn't do that if she were with girlfriend's would you?

Also, why shouldn't he feed the cats for her? Why shouldn't she talk about her friend? Why shouldn't she go out and spend time with him?

You are being a very jealous little man and need to get over yourself. And if you don't trust her, why the hell are you with her? And with that last bit about calling her and saying it's bullshit, I'd be surprised if you still had a girlfriend by the end of the day. I was always told that if somebody ever told me to make a choice between them and another, they are obviously not worth being around.

People like you piss me off.