My girlfriend has gone off sex, how can i get her "liking it" again?

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my girlfriend has gone off sex and has been now for a while, yes we have talked about it and all that stuff, but i don't know what else to do, has anyone any tips on how i can or what i can do to make a nice romantic situation and get her, in the mood?
 
Ask her why she has gone off it. Is there a reason or is she just feeling a bit unhorny? Maybe she is just needing a bit of romance. Turn the TV off one night and spend a proper night together, play some music and get out the massage oils.
 
Just give her some space, she might have some things ging on in her head. If you just make sure she knows that you love her and that sex isn't the most important thing to you then I'm sure she'll come around. Just be patient.
 
well she maybe just doesnt want to do it as much anymore. you shouldnt try so hard to get her in the "mood"...please just wait til she is ready. its a big turn off when guys just wanna have sex. your maybe not like that but sometimes girls need breaks from sex. it also depends on how much you guys had sex...but you can just charm her. be that guy that used to get her all in the "mood" its fun when you spank her too haha...not too hard but get a lil kinky thats always fun but not mucho freak ya kno? hope i helped ya out.
 
Ask her out take her to a park or something then makeout with her touch her boobs then go home take her to your room and start stripping her clothes off then put you condom on push her into bed make out and have sex and then makeout and then touch her vigina and boobs and makeout and have more sex
 
It's not going to work. Be thankful she's your girlfriend and not your wife. She can try going to the doctor, but it's been my experience that they are perfectly happy without it once they've "gone off" it.
 
A relationship is not all about sex you know, why not do her a nice candlelit dinner with some soft music on low in the back ground so she is nice and relaxed. Talk about everything but sex ok. Then when you are relaxed in front of the T.V just gently kiss her, nothing else just kiss,She may then take it further but go slow and remember one day at a time, women are sensitive.
 
Well, first find out why she does not like it anymore. But you should try to give her a back massage(with no top on). Get some oils to rub on her, light some candles, play some music. Touch her in a way that your fingers will be having a conversation with her body. Ask her if she likes it! If she lets you go further, you know that you are getting closer. Kiss her back. Move up to her neck but be very gentle. If you love oral, try to do that also. She should get back into because her body should be on fire.
 
that's harsh but i cant help think she may have gone off you? i hope not for your sake but is it because she not happy with herself (is any girl?) or maybe family around ect.... u need to talk more and get her to open up to u
 
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