...see it before she destroys it? Hi guys.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and she knows and understands that sometimes I get hung up on her relationship with her ex-boyfriend. She understands this and although it doesn't happen much, she is always there assuring me that it doesn't matter if it bothers me because she would be the same if I had an ex-girlfriend.
Hopefully you understood that, but now onto my question:
She has found this one photo, her last photo of him and her together. She got rid of all of them, but couldn't find this last photo to destroy.
Now she has found it and given me the choice whether I want to see it or not, and I'm conflicted.
Seeing it would end my curiosity, but at the same time, I may start visualizing them together, when I can put a face to the name.
What should I do?
TL;DR: My girlfriend has a photo of her ex, I sometimes can't stand thoughts of her and him together. Should I see this picture before she destroys it?
She doesn't want to keep the picture, she want's to destroy it, she is just giving me the chance to see it before it's gone.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and she knows and understands that sometimes I get hung up on her relationship with her ex-boyfriend. She understands this and although it doesn't happen much, she is always there assuring me that it doesn't matter if it bothers me because she would be the same if I had an ex-girlfriend.
Hopefully you understood that, but now onto my question:
She has found this one photo, her last photo of him and her together. She got rid of all of them, but couldn't find this last photo to destroy.
Now she has found it and given me the choice whether I want to see it or not, and I'm conflicted.
Seeing it would end my curiosity, but at the same time, I may start visualizing them together, when I can put a face to the name.
What should I do?
TL;DR: My girlfriend has a photo of her ex, I sometimes can't stand thoughts of her and him together. Should I see this picture before she destroys it?
She doesn't want to keep the picture, she want's to destroy it, she is just giving me the chance to see it before it's gone.