Cj Pulaski
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WEll, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 16 months, and we both love eachother very much. and before i start on this, she has never been really the sexually active type, Im 17, shes 16. Im pretty sexually active with myself. *cough cough*. but umm, she never masturbates. at least, thats what she told me. and i beleive her, her family is very old fasioned. now, me and her have sex pretty much like twice a month. depending on the mood. Im fine with that, hell. Im fine with like once every 2. but the thing is. I brought it to her attention, I asked her why she doesnt like to get intimate anymore...she just said "I dont know" and i kidna continued to ask, she just kept asaying "I really dont know, Beleive me???" I dont think shes cheating, I know she really doesnt have the time to because the majority of the time we are texting...I told her I beleived her. I just want things to go back to normal with her. Additionally, MOST of the times we have sex (or try) shes either to tight, or gets outta the mood to fast for me to...turn her on more. As I said, she isnt that sexually oriented like I would like her to be, but its not to much of a problem...I just feel like im not attractive to her anymore...shes cheating on me...or she just doesnt love me anymore (the last 2 I HIGHLY dout) I Love her so much!!! does anyone have any Opinions or suggestions for me? Im really stuck..