My girlfriend doesn't cook or clean?

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My girlfriend doesn't cook or clean since she grew up having all the chores done by others.
I'm thinking of getting married to her but i don't think she can keep up house.
Should i keep her or dump her?
where are the men?please help me here..im losing
where are the men?please help me here..im losing
ok we solved the problem...she doesn't wanna marry me
 
ok sweetie.

girlfriends are not supposed to help out with housework.

However wives are. I believe women should do their part as well as a man. Tell her you want to take the next step together. And together means cooking, cleaning, sex, meeting people.

forget what the other girls say. try this.

"sweetie can you help me with the dishes and i will make dinner tonight." slowly but surely she should come around
 
If you love her MARRY her teach her about cooking and cleaning it will be a good thing to bring the two of you together.
 
If a woman is unable to cook or clean, she is of a lesser breed of females and should be discarded immediately before procreation can occur.
 
Talk to her about how you can equally divide the cooking and cleaning duties. If she refuses to share in taking care of a home with you, and neither of you make enough money to eat out every night or hire a maid, then you'll have to consider how you can have an equal partnership in your marriage.
 
Where is she living at now? Cooking and cleaning should be a shared task. Both my fiance and I love to cook and keep a clean house. We take turns doing laundry or we do it together.

I think it is pretty shallow that would consider dumping her if she can't clean a house. If you aren't willing to do any cooking or cleaning yourself then hire a maid.
 
Teach her.

she hasn't had to do all those things because she didnt have to and i'm sure you are capable of doing so too, so help her out, if you really love her, you wouldn't have thought about the option to dump her, but you should encourage her to be helpful and you can also go along with the house keeping yourself.
 
Tell her one of your buddies needs to clean his apt. or room. Say that he is willing to pay her. If she refused, get rid of her. LOL If she does it, see how well she does.
 
I would buy her some good cookbooks, and a book on cleaning. Then invite her over and have a cleaning party and show her how it is done. If she throws a complete fit, then be prepared to do all the work yourself, or not be with her. You should be prepared to do your share of the work around the house also, unless she is going to be a stay at home wife. If you do marry her buy some books on child raising also.
 
I hope you're a troll but on the off-chance that you're not:

She is supposed to be your wife not your maid and mother. I would talk to her about how the chores would be divided if/when she moves in with you. Will you do the vacuuming if she does the dusting? If you cook will she iron? Marriage is about compromise so find your compromise. But if her cooking and cleaning ability are that important to you then dump her and let her find someone who can accept her the way she is.

Good luck.
 
Obliviously it is a hang up or you wouldn't be asking this question here. I think that household chores and cooking should be shared (although I do all the cooking in my house, I am just better) talk to her about it. But be realistic you need to share the duties. If it puts you off that much to help out then I don't think she should be with you.
 
switch it. in my former marriage my ex didn't cook or clean since he grew up having all the chores done by others. at first i made myself nuts trying to get the pig to sing, until i realized i couldn't get the pig to sing. Apologies to judge judy, whom i paraphrased.

instead i hired a top notch housekeeper at 200 bucks a day. she came every monday and did everything, including laundry, ironing, and putting away.
 
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