lielooshy123
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My GF and i have been going out for alittle over 3 months now and everything has been amazing up until 2 months ago when i left to go to california for the summer. My gf's parents are divorced and it has been hard on her (obviously) to have 2 different homes with VERY different religious standings. Her dad is very religious, and her mom is not religious at all. My gf ended up going to a very religious camp, and all summer long when we had a chance to talk she would tell me how sweet my letters where and how she had some sort of an "epiphany" this summer religiously. All of this was fine because we are the same religion and it doesn't matter to me if she decides to stay how she is or become more religious i just want her happy. So to make a long story shorter, i come back from california and i am just DYING to see her..I called her the day i got back, but it was to late and we couldn't hang out. So we ended up meeting up the next day for a few hours (i flew in sunday we met up on monday) and just being together. Alittle background: (sorry for jumping around) we had gotten into this fight/argument that lasted for a week or so about our sexual relationship. Basically she didn't approve of what we were doing (we are both still virgins) and i was fine with toning it down, but as a precaution to prove to her i did not just want her for sexual pleasure, i told her we would go a week without anything. When we hung out at my house on monday everything was perfect! she gave me an amazing hug, and we made out alittle bit, and it was all really amazing..the only thing that was alittle iffy was when we started to talk about the future and she started to cry thinking about me going to college and her possibly going to seminary in a completely different country for a year. Regardless, i made her laugh and i told her im not going anywhere and that i will always love her and it was fine. I have barely talked to her since that day...it is now friday (2:40a.m.) of that same week and i still have not seen her again..i spent two months away in california and i missed her everyday like crazy! and i have only seen her once. I have been calling her everyday trying to ask her if she can hang out when i get back from school but she never answers, and the one time she did answer she told me she was at a friends house and that she would call me back. She never called me back...I don't really care to much about that, but then on wednesday we were talking and she was laughing then all of a sudden she said "okay im going to go" and so i asked her why and she basically told me because she wants to..no reason, she doesn't have to but she wants to. So i said bye and i still don't think to much about that. In our first month where we spent the whole time together and i saw her everyday, she told me she was in love with me and i told her i was in love with her to. Now, im lucky if she says anything..no matter if i say 'i love you' or if i don't say anything, she wont say it anymore ever since that fight about our sexual life...did i mess up? should we not have made out?(all we did was kiss) she was the one who started kissing me, and i just couldn't say no because i have missed her so much...someone please tell me what to do, i feel like im losing her more and more everyday that passes...our week of no sexual stuff is over on monday and i don't even care if we go another week, i just want her to love me again...please advise.